By Syed Akbar Ali
I have been meaning to write this for some time but the Hulu Selangor By Election and other things got in the way.
The Shelter Home For Children is an organisation set up by Mr James Nayagam (pic) and a few friends to help homeless children and other kids who need our care.

Shelter steps in and often adopts the kids legally and places them in one of its four Homes around Kuala Lumpur. Sometimes single parents who find it difficult to care for their children may also find a sympathetic friend in Shelter. Shelter takes care of the kids but without losing touch with the parents.
You can visit their website here http://www.shelterhome.org
My wife and I have been fortunate to know Shelter for six years now. My wife, who also teaches slow learners at a Government school and does other social work, spends some time with the kids. We are foster parents to one of of the children from Shelter for five years now. It has been challenging but fulfilling to be just close to a child.
I hope everyone will be encouraged to seek out places like these and to help the children in any way you can. Do think about this. It does not take much. If you have had kids, have some spare time, do think of these kids. The most important thing is time. Just a few hours a week should be sufficient.
Writing cheques or throwing money is the easy way but spending time with them has a more productive impact on the kids. And its ok if you can only focus on one kid at a time.
Here is an encouraging thought : time flies by so quickly. Before you know it, these kids are grown up. They sit for their SPM and after that they are all dressed up, they can find jobs and start off in life.
Of course the earlier you can “intervene” into a child’s life the better but what is needed is ‘intervention’ at the right time ie at the latest when they are in the early teenage years.
Getting close to the kids at the right time, spending some time teaching them their lessons, sending them for tuition, taking them out on holidays, sleepovers at home, staying over during the school holidays and just being friends does wonders to a child’s self esteem. Its just like watering a withering plant. They just respond marvelously and start blooming.
You may not create neuro surgeons and atomic scientists out of every challenged child but you may save them from becoming something else which no one likes or wants to have around. I am talking about drugs, bad behaviour, gangsterism and what ever else.
Other than Shelter, there is also the Home of Peace in Seputeh which is run by a remarkable woman by the name of Justin who takes in young girls and gives them a solid footing in life. We have known them longer, about 10 years now, and we have actually seen young kids from very challenged backgrounds bloom into self confident, well educated and productive human beings.
Without the proper ‘intervention’ at the right time by folks like Justin and Shelter, these young people may not get the chances and the choices that every child deserves.
Shelter has evolved beyond caring for challenged kids. They are also spending time on juveniles usually young boys who are caught up in the country’s legal system. Not all of them are on the wrong side of the law. Even if they are on the wrong side of the law, it is a bit unfair to hold a 15 year old or even a 17 year old responsible for his wrong doings. They are too young to know what is right and wrong all the time (in this area maybe the adults are also juvenile).
I blame it entirely on bungling adults especially parents. Perhaps we should pass a law that if a junior gets in trouble, one of the parents goes to jail. That should put a dent, at least, on children being neglected. My wife and I have come into contact with cases and stories which can pick you up and throw you against the wall. It is unbelievable what adults can do to their own children. Kebinatangan.
Back to Shelter, some of the folks who are involved in the organisation are setting up Suriana. Suriana seeks to help people ‘caught up’ by the Law. For example there are about 300 teenagers (juveniles) now in prison. They do not belong there – with other hardcore prisoners. But this is our system. It needs improvement.
For example there is a 15 year old in Kajang prison. He was caught without an IC. So he was taken to Court. No one came to bail him out because family, relatives semua tak ada or they dont want to get involved. Then the ‘postponements’ started (only Anwar Ibrahim is a beneficiary of postponing cases). Because the lawyers, magistrates, courts etc are clogged up, the cases take months to be disposed of. In the meantime, because it is a ‘criminal case’ a 15 year old is put away in Kajang Prison for up to six months.
There are 16 year olds selling fake VCDs who were also arrested and sent to jail – while waiting for their cases to be disposed of. It takes a minimum of six months. Some juveniles have been locked away like this for three years.
There is a place called the Immigration Detention Center somewhere near the KLIA Depot. There are about 150 people kept there at any one time, including young foreign children who are the victims of human trafficking. There is no where else (in the system) to place them. These are kids who may have been brought here to beg, to get involved in vice etc. When they are ‘caught’, they also ge caught in the system. They also have to spend months waiting it out at the Detention Centre.
The detention center has a zinc roof and the detainees are fed on a budget of RM1.90 per person per day. They speak of one sad case where an Afghan girl, who with her husband was brought here on the promise of a job, was sent there because her visa had expired. She went from cloistered Afghan girl to sleeping with strangers in a zinc shed with no end in sight to her detention. Folks say she lost her mind and went berserk.
300 juveniles in prison, 150 detainees at the Detention Centre, 40 kids in a Shelter Home, 15 kids in a Home of Peace may not sound like a lot but wait and read till the end. Bone chilling stuff is on the way.
When the 15 year old boys are sent to Prison they are picked up by the gangs in prison who have connections outside. They suffer threats and violence. They learn to become ‘couriers’. When they go to Court to attend their hearings, they may bring back drugs and even handphones carried in their anus! When they leave prison, they are again picked up by the gangs. So 300 juveniles in prison can become 300 gangsters, drug pushers, hired guns, murderers and other sorts of criminals. Even if one of them ends up killing someone, that is two lives destroyed.
So really the cost of intervention now to save these kids is infinitely much cheaper than the price we may have to pay later. So friends, put on your social worker hats and tolong sikit. I dont know about other Prisons or other detention centers. There are actually so few of these unfortunate kids in your own neighborhoods. Lets help our kids. Just start in your own neighborhood.
Suriana is a new organisation that has been set up by some folks from within Shelter to help in this direction. The young man in charge is Andersen (HP 012 227 7072) who has set up a contact e mail at suriana.org@gmail.com
For starters they want to create ‘advocacy’ – meaning pukul canang lah. Or make some noise to get the attention of everyone : Government, the people, NGOs and anyone else. For example, Andersen says that there is a Law which says that when a juvenile is arrested, the Police are bound to inform the Social Welfare Department. But there are so many other cases. The kids get lost among the files. When there is no one to pay the bail, the kids get sent to the lock up and after that to the Prison.
Suriana wants to set up links to the AG’s Chambers, the Police, the Prisons system and the Welfare Department. Volunteers and staff will intervene at all these appropriate points listed here and see how they can help these juveniles.
They are also targeting something called ‘First Line of Tapping”. These will be part of the ‘Children In Crisis Services’. The Welfare Department does have a Counseling Service where families with problems and having problems with their kids can go for counseling and aid. Often these kids graduate to become juvenile delinquents and criminals. It is the intention of Suriana to again intervene through these counseling programs and pick up some of these cases. First line of tapping.
The Welfare Department does not get the Budget of the Sukhois. So they too can use as much help as they can get too. Other plans they have in mind is for advocacy for Missing Children. Also to ramp up the dialogue on children’s rights including things like “Childrens Right To Play”.
All these easy sounding words cost money. Children’s Right To Play means urban developments must set aside areas for playgrounds including equipping them with swings, slides and monkey bars. It may evolve into minimum square feet required when homes are built. So not everyone will support what Suriana is advocating. But as we move along in life and become wealthier, perhaps we should become more sharing too.
The Pengarah, Jabatan Kebajikan Masyarakat Negeri Selangor has issued a letter of support for Suriana to begin operations. They say “Objektif pertubuhan ini adalah amat membantu pihak Jabatan Kebajikan Masyarakat dalam menangani masalah sosial di kalangan kanak-kanak”.
Suriana kicks off in June. They need funds too, to do all these things. The more money they get, the more things they can get done.
You can contact Andersen (HP 012 227 7072) or at suriana.org@gmail.com